Linda Gray Sexton
A Beatles song tells us “love is all you need.” Sometimes I’m not so certain about this bold statement: I crave my work, among other things. But still, isn’t love the greatest necessity of all? As I think back over the course of my life, I see it in all its guises as it enters…
Read MoreI rode the wave, rising toward its rolling crest, and then dropped down into a gulf of pain. I was thirty-one years old, and it was a pivotal date for me: October 4, 1984. The day has just passed again in 2021, but that October Friday so long ago remains sharp in my memory—as sharp…
Read MoreFor this week’s blog, I had written a “Letter” on the subject of love, on how precious it can be, how ephemeral, and how we must rely on it in order to lead a fulfilled life. However, four nights ago, I decided to watch a frightening and highly emotional documentary, rather than a popular love-struck…
Read MoreMy mother’s name invades my writing room: the big, black, bold ANNE SEXTON jumping off the spine of Self-Portrait In Letters, a volume I edited when I was twenty-one, immediately after her suicide. Arranged on four of my many shelves are several rows of her books, both in English and in foreign translation, neither alphabetized…
Read MoreMy new home is on a river with wide sweeping views: the Rhode in Edgewater, Maryland, to be precise. Right now the water has a little chop to it, and it is gray, because the day is overcast. We’ve just moved in and find ourselves transfixed by the amazing sunsets to the south, as well.…
Read MoreLiving on the water is the height of beauty: from sunsets over a river that ripples with pink and orange while we watch from the deck; to a sky streaking up with color as I lie in bed at five o’clock in the morning and look out the window at the crab boats that putter…
Read MoreBelow me I can hear the noise of the carpenters banging away as they finish sheet-rocking my basement. From my window I can hear birdsong and the river lapping at our shore. At last, we are ensconced in our new house. Moving itself was a nightmare, with an unproductive estate sale, followed by days of…
Read MoreThis has been a month of sadness for me. My best friend has moved to a new home several states away. Though I know we will continue to talk on the phone and to text or email, it will not be the same as hiking together with my dog, or having supper or a glass…
Read MoreJust about four years ago, I picked up nearly thirty years’ worth of California experience and made my way back to the coast on which I was born. The West had welcomed me in 1989, just in time for a ferocious 6.9 earthquake; in 2017, another temblor rumbled under me—this time one of my own…
Read MoreIt’s not time for summer reading yet, but it is time for a spring fling into new books—some published a while ago, some published recently. I am making recommendations of those I loved with the hope that you will be between books, or shortly will be, and will turn to one of these. Though someone…
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